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You open your email and your stress level spikes: it’s another email titled “Can I work from home tomorrow?”

It’s one of several you received in the last month: a relentless march of requests for remote work that ask for one-off exceptions to your policy.

This constant barrage isn't just a logistical headache. It's a flashing red warning light, signaling a deeper issue. Your employees aren’t buying into your company’s remote work policy.

These requests signify a disconnect between the company's vision of the workplace and the employees' lived experience. Ignoring these requests, dismissing them as mere grumbling, will damage morale.

Uncover the 'Why': Getting to the Heart of Remote Work Requests

Start with a well-crafted, anonymous remote work survey.

An employee survey is your first line of inquiry, a way to gather broad data and identify trends. Ask direct questions:

  • "What are your biggest challenges with the current work arrangement?" 
  • "What aspects of remote work do you find most appealing?" 
  • "What concerns do you have about working in the office?" 

Use both quantitative, multiple-choice questions to gather data, and qualitative questions to get longer, richer responses. 

But a survey alone is not enough. You need to understand the human element, the emotions driving these preferences. This is where focus groups come in.

Focus groups offer a chance to build on the survey and move beyond the numbers and into the realm of lived experience. 

A skilled facilitator guides the conversation, teasing out the nuances, the unspoken concerns, the individual stories behind the data points. Prior to the focus group, the facilitator can use the survey responses to create a discussion guide for the focus groups, thus requiring less time and effort to extract the key data.

It’s in these sessions you'll uncover the real reasons behind the resistance. Perhaps employees feel there isn't enough value or opportunities to connect with key team members when working in the office. Maybe they are struggling to balance work and family commitments. Maybe they’re more productive at home.

Or, perhaps, your company's current policy is genuinely out of sync with the realities of the modern workplace. You need to get to the bottom of these feelings.

Just as important as getting the data, both the survey and focus groups combine to make your employees feel heard, which will prove key for the next step, of addressing employee concerns. 

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Addressing Employee Concerns

Once you have this rich, qualitative data, you’re ready to act. You’ve listened, you’ve understood, and now you can respond effectively. This might mean reaffirming your current policy, but with some adjustments. Now, you can justify it from a place of empathy and understanding.

You will very likely find that offering clear explanations for current HR policies, informed by the survey and focus groups, can build trust with employees, creating more buy-in into the existing policies.

Just as important as getting the data, both the survey and focus groups combine to make your employees feel heard, which will prove key for the next step, of addressing employee priorities.

Tweaking remote

Let me share a real-world example. I was brought in as a consultant to help a mid-sized law firm struggling with this very issue. They had a policy of three days in the office, two days remote. Still, the requests for exceptions kept flooding in. 

We conducted a survey and followed up with focus groups. The results were illuminating. Many attorneys felt the three-day requirement was arbitrary. They valued the flexibility of remote work, particularly for focused, heads-down tasks.

However, they also acknowledged the importance of in-person collaboration for certain aspects of their work, such as complex negotiations and mentoring junior staff. The focus groups revealed a desire for more autonomy in managing their schedules, within the framework of the existing policy.

After considering the matter in a partner retreat, the leadership reaffirmed their commitment to the three-day in-office policy. However, they did so while acknowledging the employees' desire for flexibility.

The firm’s managing partner communicated to all attorneys the rationale behind the policy, emphasizing the value of in-person collaboration for specific tasks, while also making some minor adjustments, allowing for more flexibility on which two days attorneys chose to work remotely.

This approach showed the attorneys that their concerns had been heard and that the firm had a good reason for its policy, while also being willing to make adjustments.

A survey showed a 20% increase in satisfaction with the firm’s remote work policy after the end of the project.

Consider a Policy Overhaul

However, be prepared for the possibility that your current policy might need an overhaul. The data might reveal that a more flexible model is more suitable for your workforce.

Be open to the possibility that employees are asking for remote work because they genuinely feel it will be more productive for them. The key is to approach this process with an open mind and a willingness to adapt.

I faced a different scenario with an accounting firm. They were struggling to retain talent and had a strict policy of full-time in-office work. After a survey and focus groups, it became clear that the policy was a major source of dissatisfaction.

The employees, particularly younger staff, valued work-life balance and felt they could be just as productive, if not more so, working remotely. They wanted more autonomy and flexibility. 

The firm’s leadership listened carefully to this feedback. They took a bold step and empowered individual teams to decide how and when they should come into the office. 

The results were remarkable. Morale improved significantly, and the firm saw a 10% boost in productivity and 26% increase in employee retention over the next six months. This flexible approach also helped them attract top talent in a competitive market.

A Future-Ready Workplace

Old models of work are crumbling, and new paradigms are emerging. The companies that thrive will be those that trust their employees. The constant requests for remote work are not a threat. They are an opportunity.

So, take a deep breath. Dive into the data. Engage in meaningful conversations. And emerge with a remote work policy that reflects the needs of your people and the demands of the future.

Your employees will appreciate it. Your bottom line will benefit. And you’ll be leading the charge towards a future-ready workplace. This is your chance to shine as a leader, to demonstrate that you are not just managing a workforce but cultivating a community.

Gleb Tsipursky

Dr. Gleb Tsipursky was lauded as “Office Whisperer” and “Hybrid Expert” by The New York Times for helping leaders use hybrid work to improve retention and productivity while cutting costs. He serves as the CEO of the future-of-work consultancy Disaster Avoidance Experts. He is a best selling author, consultant and behavioral scientist. A proud Ukrainian American, Gleb lives in Columbus, Ohio.